when you move towards something, first, go within. once you're clear enough that you do not actually need it, you are free to take it: it will not enslave you.
that is the way to true freedom.
and a small sidenote: i don't expect anyone to understand this: it's in my own language; so feel free to not "get it", feel free to consider it stupid or just disagree with it:
i've written it for myself.